June 3rd
Mallerie turned 14. What she was most excited about was that she can now go to stake dances. Since her birthday fell on a Monday she had her party the weekend before. She had been on again/off again about having a party and was still undecided the Saturday of. Around noon I said, "You should have one, you won't regret it but you might regret not having one." She used the modern method of texting to get the word out. I called Days and ordered up a party platter. Matt and I went to pick it up that evening around 6 pm and when we pulled up at our house there were kids everywhere! I said, "I could NOT have scared up this many friends last minute when I was her age...or my age for that matter!" One boy was seriously like 7 feet tall. I thought to myself, I bet all anyone says when they meet him is "You are tall!' Sure enough right when Matt got out of the car he asks him, "How
TALL ARE YOU???" The evening consisted of a lot of organized chaos. They went on a scavenger hunt and played night games. Matt put on a movie on the B-Ball court. Matt and I got engrossed in Downton Abbey. We went out around 10:30-11:00 to tell everyone it was time to wrap it up and the place was desserted! They were galavanting around the neighborhood and what not. Kids. Mallerie's memory card in her camera isn't formatting so we don't have photos of the day (hopefully just not
yet)
but I was glad to see that her friend took a photo of her in her new birthday dress another day.
When I picked Mallerie up in Midway the night after they took the following photos Mallerie said she had lost her necklace sometime during the photo session. It was a dark night and the yard was huge. Since the house is someone's second home they weren't there. I shined the headlights onto the yard and she got out to look. I figured I may as well help look too. I got out and noticed a stream running through the yard. Could I jump over it? I probably could but it would be a pretty big jump. I decided not to and walked down to take the little bridge. As I started looking in the grass the headlights turned off. I hadn't left the car running so I walked back in the dark and turn on the car. There was that stream again. I
really thought I could make it if I jumped. Should I? Nah, I'd probably fall in the water. So I took the bridge again. I thought I could see something gleaming in the grass. I started walking towards it when Mallerie yelled from another place in the yard, "I found it!"
Have you ever been reading a paragraph and you are certain that at some point the writer is going to reveal how they made the wrong choice and ended up, say, in a stream all wet? Or they were their daughters hero and they found her long lost necklace on a dark night in Midway? Well, this story has neither tragedy, heroism, or a point.

The following Sunday the Bishop called her up to give her her advancement certificate from Beehives. Then he called up another girl who was leaving YW. Before he gave the other girl her certificate he walked into the congregation and traded certificates with Mallerie. He had mixed them up and the ward got a laugh. Mallerie was called up again two weeks later to receive her Young Womanhood Recognition certificate and necklace. What takes most YW four years to complete, Mallerie completed in two. The Bishop caught her off guard and asked her to share her thoughts at the pulpit. She looked like a deer in the headlights. This was a moment where I wished I could run up there and help her out with ideas of whet to say. Instead I sat there in the congregation knowing this needed to be al her. She was able to get out a few thoughts such as, "It was really fun." For one of her projects she sewed an apron. Another was to start her own recipe collection. She found a yummy Peanut Butter bar recipe that she made for FHE one night. I was so disappointed with how they turned out. I so wanted them to be dry and tasteless so I wouldn't eat half the pan.
Mallerie has stayed busy this summer with Cross Country each morning. Well, except for July when she was gone the entire month! She has inspired Matt and I to kick up our heels a little more as well.
Photos taken during the annual stake 5k.
Mallerie is so much fun to be around. She is a light whereever she goes. After our family vacation, she enjoyed a week in Elko, then Girls Camp, and then Oakcrest Camp with Sophie. I missed her helping hands sorely.
During the summer we got a letter from one of her school teachers. Hmm. With Mallerie, a letter from a teacher can only mean one of two things. This one basically was a thank you to Matt and I as parents:
Abby and Matt:
I wanted to write a quick note to you about Mallerie. She has been in one of my more challenging classes this year. However, it was because of Mallerie that this was one of my favorite classes. She really saved the class by bringing a lot of life and spunk to it. There would be times when the class is getting into something pretty intensely and then there would be a little commotion in the back. I would look up and Mallerie would be in the middle of it such as when a spider was seen in her vicinity. She made me smile and laugh this year and all the students really liked here. She also worked hard for the grade she received and it was a real pleasure to have her in my class this year. I know that she will have much success in High School.
All the best,
Marc Sullivan
When Mallerie got home later we had to have some fun with her, "So Mallerie we got a letter from one of your teachers today..." Marc is also our neighbor and Matt's golf buddy. This isn't Mallerie's favorite thing. I suppose she feels like her worlds are colliding.
July 25th
I asked Katrina what kind of cake she wanted and her request was a yellow cake with cream cheese icing. No problem. I bought a yellow cake mix at Smith's. It said butter recipe. Man, it did not turn out. It totally fell apart when it came out of the pans. So Matt, the gem, went to Smith's and picked up a cake with cream cheese frosting. It was red velvet instead of yellow but when I showed her the pile of crumbs that would have been her cake she understood. I was disappointed as I so wanted to grant her request.

This was a significant birthday for Katrina since she turned big SIXTEEN on July 25th. Our Mormon lifestyle is really cramping party plans. Mallerie's birthday fell on Family Home Evening, and Katrina's was on a Wednesday, which means Young Women's. She spent the day down in Orem shopping and lunching with friends. I was doing the same thing! I thought back to my sixteenth birthday when I spent the afternoon with besties Melanie, Missy, and Kirsten. And for Katrina's sixteenth I also spent the day with my besties Missy, Melanie, and Kirsten.

Have your lips ever been really dry and you finally got your hands on some lip balm? Have you ever been super thirsty and been relieved to pour a tall glass of water? Have your hands ever been dry and itchy only to be soothed by some sweet smelling lotion? Have you ever been craving your favorite food only to have it for lunch? Well, those sweet feelings of relief are what it is like for me to get together with these girls. They are balm for my soul!
I am glad Katrina has such a group of her own. Her friends are all really great as well.
Katrina let us take her to Kneaders for dinner that night and then her friends (who I guess were skipping YW in their wards) came for gift opening and cake eating before they watched
The Woman in Black.
Some sixteen-year-olds aspire for a new car for their birthday but even more thrilling for Katrina was her very own Madeline DVD collection! Look at Callie being introduced to them, "Wow, what are these?" She has had them on replay since.
Her other gifts couldn't be opened out of a box. I took her for a day of pampering at the University Mall two days later. First stop was Remedez Salon where her hair was trimmed and styled. Then to Clinique where make-up was applied. Lastly I took her to Photoworks for some cute pictures. She humored me on that last stop. It was not her
thang but she was a good sport and I looove them!
Katrina seems to be all grown up. She makes her own decisions and seems to be doing all right! I took her to HS registration to settle fee's (ouch). One of the expenses is the Drivers Ed course. The lady said that we didn't need to pay for that yet. Katrina spoke up. "Well, I called and talked to my councilor this week and he said if I pay and turn in my receipt to the Drivers Ed instructor I can start driving. And I have an appointment with him tomorrow." The lady and I looked at each other, "Well then, we'll go ahead and have you pay." Katrina had arranged it all and that was that.
You may see the similarities between Katrina's birthday outfit and Mallerie's (on the dress form). I can't dress them as twiners anymore, but I can try. I enjoyed running into Heber's newly opened Rue 21 the eve before each of their birthday's and picking up an outfit. We are big time now. It's hard picking for someone who has a definitive taste of their own but since she wore the outfit to church I must have done alright. She was leading the way into Sacrament meeting as the kids were following her down the isle. Then
she went and sat on the stand! We said to one another, "I guess Katrina is speaking." See? She. does. her. own.
THANG. She did a great job of course.
Katrina attended the same camps as Mallerie except for Oakcrest this summer. Instead she attended EFY for the first time at BYU. She went with her close freind Liz. Both really loved it. Matt had to pick them up bright and early on Saturday morning from campus. He pulled up in front of a dorm and called the cell, "I'm here," Liz got a kick out of that. Here there were thousands of kids at different locations and he just pulls up and say's, "I'm here, where are
you?"
Matt and I signed up to can peaches at the Lindon cannery for a Tuesday morning in August at 7 am. The Sunday before when they passed around the reminders I realized that wasn't going to work for me at all. I was hosting a wedding shower at my house that day at noon. Even though I would be home in time that would leave me no time to prep (aka CLEAN). Sixteen was the minimum age limit for the cannery so I passed it down the pew to Katrina and asked, "Can you do this?" She nodded. I loved how willing she was. This turned out to be a huge life saver for me when I ended up helping a horder move out of our ward the next day for six hours. Then when I came home I remembered my taped off dining room all ready to paint. Me being me I decided to go ahead and paint it. It went pretty fast. So the next morning I got the house cleaned up just in time for the sisters I was throwing the shower with to bring the food over. By the time the shower started Katrina still wasn't back. I learned later that since Matt had to head back to work Katrina got a ride home with some sisters from the ward. The canyon had some construction and was closed when they tried coming home. They passed time by going to Macy's to get an ice cream cone. I got a kick out of picturing these three random gals out on the town. One is old enough to be Katrina's mother, and the other is old enough to be her grandmother. People may have thought how nice it was to see three genrations getting together like that for ice cream on a Tuesday morning.
From time to time Katrina and I borrow each other's shirts. She had a bunch of stuff ready for MS to take. I sifted through it and found several things that I have kept and worn quite a bit. We attended the wedding reception for the gal I threw the shower for and Katrina was serving at it. As soon as she saw me she said, "Is that my shirt?" I looked at what she was wearing. "Is that
my shirt?" Nuf said.
Maybe we are a little too sassy in our family for your taste. Towards the end of the reception the newlyweds started dancing till more people joined in. The kids asked me, "Why aren't you dancing?" I said, "Cause no one asked me." "Matt asked, "Do you want to dance?" I said, "No I don't." He said, "Neither do I." We took some cake and went on our way.
With Callie being newly potty-trained. Underwear (she pronounces it
unnawear) is a common word around here. "Are they dry?" "Did you put clean ones on?" "Let me help you turn them so they aren't SIDEWAYS." So starting in May when our family began to have a slew of birthday's and she heard the phrase, "Happy Birthday" more often than not. Callie tweaked it to, "Haaaaaappy..........UNNAWEAR!!!!" Which she has had occasion to yell out quite often lately.
In celebration of Mallerie and Katrina, Happy Unnawear, We love you!
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