When you know you nose


September 18th was the one-year anniversary of a pretty bold choice. I've been so happy with my decision. It was the right choice for me.
Below are excerpts from my "Real Self" bio for Dr. Fryer's online review:


January 2013
Like others I used the internet to read profiles and bio's online before calling for an appointment with a board certified plastic surgeon. I sent photos to another surgeon for an online consultation and was told my case was "too complex" and I was referred to another surgeon. That surgeon was out of town. I called Dr. Fryer's office based on his online bio and experience. I was able to get an appointment in a short amount of time. I planned on making several appointments and meeting with several surgeons before deciding on who would perform my Rhinoplasty because the surgery would be in such a noticeable place, on my face! However, after meeting with Dr. Fryer I booked the surgery without making any more appointments. He put me at ease and his staff was so confident in his surgery skills that I felt I was in safe hands. He talked with me at length about what he could do for me. His office does not offer a computer generated before and after. Dr. Fryer explained that is because you can make a nose look like anything on a computer screen and sometimes those images aren't realistic. I appreciated the honesty of what was realistic for me. I still wanted to look like me after all, just better! He told me that people who see me all the time will of course notice a difference, but people who don't see me very often may not even notice the change. He made sure I was doing this for me. I would tell anyone contemplating Rhinoplasty, that indeed that is the reason to do it, for you.






Ta-da!

Fall '13

The day after Ava's party I got to meet up with family in American Fork and see Cade and Ashley's newest addition: Introducing Callister Cade 9/12/13. This boy quickly became known for his facial expressions!
I remember what it was like to have a son after only knowing daughters. "How will this be different?What will he be like?" I wondered, "Will he one day put a mustache on the mailbox?"

Matt went on a business trip to Atlanta Georgia. He texted me a photo of the city, "Wish you were here."
I was cozy at home and texted right back, "Wish you were here."
Fall projects for me have been to paint my front door, work on chair covers for the dining room, and fuss with my couch cushions.
Since Matt was gone for the weekend I got to take Grayson to BYU's home game. They were playing Georgia Tech. The funny thing is that Matt was watching the game on TV at Georgia Tech. Me and Grayson had a great time. He knows anything and everything there is to know about Football. It's really nice to see him in his element. And a big bonus was that BYU won! We parked at my Grandparents old house and walked to the stadium. It is sad and yet comforting at the same time, to be there.










Other fall adventures were taking the babies to Zermatt's scarecrow walk, a Fabulous Friday craft (still sitting in the laundry room undone), and more hiking while the kiddos were in school. It was always a treat when Matt would stay home to hike with me.
Soldier Hollow Trail





Hiking!

Last winter was the worst for me sickness wise (hello fever blisters!). Then in the spring I kept getting one ailment after another. A bad cold followed by a stomach bug, followed by another bad cold. The last time I felt a sickness coming on I was ticked. I was tired of feeling run down most of the time. I wasn't sleeping well at all and therefore was never getting a good nights rest. My body had had it and I had had it. I realized my troubles were because I was eating a lot of sugar and not ever moving my body enough to break a sweat. I felt toxic. I vowed then and there that enough was enough. As soon as I was well enough I put in my timesaver workout DVD's. Who can't afford 20 minutes a few times a week? Well, lifting five pounds was hard and 20 minutes seemed like forever, BUT I stuck with it and by the time school got out six weeks later I felt in shape. I was so glad to have this good base workout done because we ended up being so active this summer and I could keep up with my kids. I moved my exercise (except for weights) outdoors, weather I was on my bike or on a hike!
 July Family Reunion hike up the Glacial Wash (photo taken by Cade)
Here it is 7 months later and I have been sleeping so much better, and guess what? I have not gotten sick once! (knock on wood). I am now on the down slope of my 30's and I realize that my body does not let me get away with what it used to eating wise either. I am grateful for my body and want it to work right for me so I better treat it accordingly.

My phylosophy is that I don't think exercise should make you miserable. If it does, do something else. When I got tired of doing squats in the basement I moved on to biking. When my knees started bothering me from so much hiking, I went back to biking. I just try to move a few times a week. Not everyday, I'm still me after all!
It's hard to work out inside when you live in paradise.
I have noticed an inner calm that wasn't there before ever since I started spending more time outside.
All of this spring and summer training was put to good use come the end of September when I was able to keep up with the boys on a hike to the TOP OF TIMP. 
Matt was a bit indecisive as to weather he was going to hike it or not. His heart wanted to but his body was giving him grief. He was nursing a fallen arch and a bad back. I took him to Wasatch State Park to hike around with me for some good practice. He decided he could do it.
 We met up at the Timpooneke Trailhead at 7:00 am on Saturday September 28th.
 The original group was Jon, Shafer, Cade, Matt, and myself. My dad had decided to come along last minute. He says he didn't get the memo to, "kick off your Sunday shoes." 
Those shoes proved a bit slick in the snow. Shafer's clearance hiking boots that he had to HOT GLUE seemed to hold up great though. I should have grabbed my boots. My running shoes were comfortable but soaking wet.
You'd think because of all the snow it would be hard to see the trail but, boy oh boy, is it a traveled trail. Many hikers had been up since 1 a.m. packing the snow down for us.
Scout Falls. I am anxious to see it in the summer. The group ahead of us must have also taken the trail to scout falls because they left behind a little treasure. We joked that they must really like curry;)
 Matt was a dear and got me a sweet fancy back camel back for the trip. It made sipping water easy and convenient.
There was a young punk kid who RAN past us. We were still several hours from the summit when he ran past us on his way DOWN the mountain. He didn't even have a water bottle, said he just ate snow along the way. YOUTH!
Jon was the organizer and spear header of this outing. He and Matt and I were first timers, my brothers and dad have all been up to the summit several times before. But none of them have hiked it in snow!
 It was a beautiful hike as you can imagine.




  This was an educational hike for me. I learned the proper way to eat sunflower seeds, that my hat was on backwards, and that there are such things as snot rockets. It was much more difficult for me to use the bathroom than it was for the guys. I went off the trail a ways following the sign that read, "toilet." There is indeed a porcelain thrown at the top of the mountain sitting there but those curry folks had again beaten me to it. I came back to the guys and they asked how it was, I answered, "I need a hot poker to poke my eyes out."
Shafer said in the summer there are a gazillion wildflowers but it's HOT. I guess you have to decide what you'd rather. I want to both, to see the flowers and not be hot.
Matt and my dad didn't chat as much as the rest of us. They said they needed all their oxygen just to breathe. About four hours into the hike my dad said he had gone as far as he could.
 My last image is of him holding on to the side of the mountain with his head between his knees! The only reason we felt okay letting him go back down alone was because there were so many others along the trail.  They came to his rescue and gave him a ski pole to aid in his falls. He had a sprained ankle but made it the parking lot. I hope to make it as far as he did when I'm on the down side of my 60's!

We thought we were a lot closer to the summit than we actually were.
We were gaging distance by an app on Matt's phone that apparently was way off. We passed some guys coming down the mountain who said, "You should be there in a couple of hours." Matt thought they were joking and showed them his app. They said, "That's wrong, you still have two hours." Next thing I knew Matt was sitting on a rock pulling out his sandwich. He told me to go ahead. I wasn't sure if he was going to continue on. He was hurting pretty badly. Me and the brothers got up higher and could see Matt slowing walking the trail, "I'm not giving up." 
After the bowl the trail got sooooo hairy, dicey, treacherous, whatever! At some parts you had to hold onto weeds on the side of the mountain and leap across the washed away trail. And it was SLICK. Cade grabbed onto a rock that I had pulled loose and nearly fell down the ravine. He tried to stop his slide but he was in slick tennis shoes. Somehow he saved himself. I called down to Matt, "Maybe you should wait there!" I heard back, "I'm not giving up." We all met up again before the summit. Shafer said he was going to get all his warm gear on because the second you reach the summit the wind is strong and cold. We all said, "Then that is what we are doing!" He was right, as soon as we stood on top of that mountain the cold air hit me but it was... BRILLIANT. 
It is an amazing view. It was surreal to look out over Utah County and then turn around and see Wasatch County behind us. My two homes.
Oh man, we made it! We got there at 1:00 pm just like those guys had predicted. It had been six hours since we had started hiking. Shafer and Cade were egging each other on to go up to the shack.
The hikers we saw coming down all had toe picks on their shoes but said it was still treacherous. One teen said, "I almost died!" I told my brothers that I was going to have to be the mother figure and forbid it. The saddle was victory enough. 









I'll tell ya what, on top of that mountain Jon looked just like Yukon Cornelius.

We hunkered on the not-windy side of the mountain and pulled out our lunches. We had to smile at Cade's princess sandwich holder. Matt did not have a sandwich. Shafer put Brian Reagan on speaker on his Ipod and we enjoyed a rest.

The hike down took four and a half hours but seemed like forever! It is daunting being 11,000 feet up and realizing you still have to go back down. But what does Cornelius's friend Kris Kringle sing? "Put one foot in front of the other..." And that is just what did. We came across a couple picnicking on a rock. They asked if any of us had any lip balm. All the boys shook their heads but I said, "Yes!" More sympathetic I could not be and squirted some on her finger. She acted like it was manna from heaven. We ran into her again on the trail and I gave her another squirt. Dry lips are the worst.

The thing we all should have brought though is sunscreen. That was my only complaint that night, my nose was burnt to a crisp. Matt had liquid dripping down his face. He was also sore all over. BUT he didn't. give. up.
Looking froward to next year.

Matt only had to wait until the next weekend to see his best good pals again when they all attended the Priesthood session together. With the adventures they had afterwards it almost topped Timp!

Celebrating Ava! 9/11/13

As Matt taped streamers to the table the night before Ava's birthday he said, "It seems like we have done this a lot." What he didn't know was that I had been thinking the same thing and had calculated how many children's birthday's we had celebrated, "This is number 64." Can you even believe it? He couldn't. No wonder he feels like retiring!
Ah but it is worth it every time to see the smiling faced birthday child in the morn.
We were the only ones in Red Lantern for dinner that night, maybe that was because we ate so early. The reason we ate early was because Mallerie AND Ava had to get you YOUNG WOMENS! I remember that my 12th birthday was also on a Wednesday night and I thought it was fun to get to go to Young Women's that very night. I smiled as I watched her and Mallerie walk into the church together.
Afterward, we cut into her requested red velvet cake.
Because her birthday was on a mutual night she chose Friday night for her party so she could have a late night. She invited a dozen girls over to help her celebrate.

The girls mainly just wanted to goof off and eat but I thought I'd have an activity or two up my sleeve to make it feel like a party. I thought back to being that age and remembered a Miss America party that was silly but fun. Since it was Friday the 13th I made banners for each girl with "mis" words, MisUNDERSTOOD, MisFIT, MisTAKEN, etc (totally used the idea from a Miss America party I went to as an adult).
The party favors were bags of popcorn with an airhead tied to them, "I"d have to be a real airhead to not thank you for popping in to my party!
As I was getting the food ready Ava announced they were leaving for a scavenger hunt called "Bigger/Better" and they were off! It was great to have a quiet house to get things ready;)
Since we had chowed on cake just two days before we had a make-your-own-cookie-pizza bar. 
One girl was very observant and sweet, " WOW! This is a really nice party." They were ALL sweet.
I thought one girl in-particular had a cute idea when it came to gift giving. She showed up with 12 balloons, each one had a dollar inside.
When we were at the cabin for the Taylor Reunion a couple years ago we did skits where we all acted out The Three Bears with a different theme. For Ava's party they got in groups and acted it out keeping their part true to their 'mis' banner. Misunderstood for example mumbled her lines. I was laughing out loud as I saw their personalities shine through.
I hope in the end, after the family celebration and then the friend celebration, that Ava felt how much we truly love her. Ava is the best.
She was asked to give her first talk in sacrament meeting within the month. She wanted to prepare it all by herself. I was impressed to see her use stories, quotes, and scriptures. She didn't seem nervous at all. I asked her afterwards if she was, "Yes!"

Did you know that Ava's nickname is Binnie? Actually her nickname is Ava because we mainly call her Binnie. It started years ago and stuck. It's cute to see little Callie ask, "Where is Binnie?" She's Binnie. She just is.